“When you are so busy working outside of your home, it’s truly important to have the right people to support you. It’s not that you’re too busy, it’s that you need the right resources around you to help you out.”
I won’t ever forget that advice, (given along with a plumber’s phone number). Sue had instantly shifted my perspective. Instead of being completely stressed and focusing on the problem, I quietly began building my support network.
At the top of that list: family and friends.. friends like Sue. She has dispensed many words of wisdom since then… and I truly value our friendship.
A few years ago, as we were driving to a night out at the orchestra, she sagely observed,“It’s really important for me to maintain my friendships. These are the people I want to have in my life forever. I don’t plan to change who these people are.” Family and friends come first, whether it’s dinner, book club, folk club, a glass of wine or a just a cup of coffee… time spent together is always a priority.
Sue and her husband Brian also have a passion for tradition. Every November, our family is invited to their annual Christmas party. At one time their home was filled with chatter and running of little feet, as our children scampered about and sang us Christmas Carols. This year, these children have grown into beautiful young women and men and it was so great to see them dressed up… socializing right alongside us. Our children have been friends going on 13+ years. Phil considers Colby his brother and truly loves hanging out with Brian. Katie, Chelsea and Brittany now attend University together.
Many years ago, Sue and Brian owned a shop in Kensington called “Picnics to Go”. At that time, I worked nearby, frothing cappuccino’s at Heartland Cafe…
we’re sure I must have served them a coffee or two… long before having our families. Years later I would be Colby’s Kindergarten teacher. I love how serendipitous that was.
Once again, this past Saturday night, Christmas lights shone a welcoming luminous beacon for all of their guests. Every vase was filled to bursting with lilies, willow and fragrant spruce and fir boughs. Lights were dimmed, lively music played and every single candle in their home was lit. I think we counted 54 last year.
Sue is an inspiring gourmet cook with a flair for market fresh dishes that she can spontaneously whip together without following a recipe. This is one of the salads she always prepares for her Christmas party. It’s simple, beautiful… and a tradition. Fortunately it does come with a recipe and it’s relatively simple… and so felicitous in all it’s Christmas splendor.
Sue would tell you that, although it may be winter, there couldn’t be a better time than to be spontaneous and plan a picnic… even if it’s just next to a fire in your home. A little crisp Chardonnay, a salad, music, perhaps a fur blanket… and of course, someone special…
Check out this month’s issue online for City Palate Calgary Food Magazine to learn more about seeding a pomegranate from Julie Van Roosendal!
Pomegranate and Feta Salad
(A Year of the Best)
- 1 head romaine lettuce
- 1 bunch spinach
- 1/2 cup feta cheese
- 1 pomegranate
- 1/4 cup pine nuts
- Dressing
- 1/3 cup olive oil
- 1 tbsp red wine vinegar
- 2 tbsp maple syrup
- 1 tsp Dijon mustard
- 1/2 tsp oregano
- salt and freshly cracked black pepper
- Mix all dressing ingredients together in dressing container or glass jar. Shake vigorously to blend.
- Thoroughly wash lettuce and spinach and spin to dry, tear then add to your salad bowl. I like to arrange these on a large platter.
- Drain then crumble feta cheese over the salad leaves.
- Cut the pomegranate in half horizontally. Put on an apron and get a small bowl ready. Using the backside of a wooden spoon, whack the pomegranate half vigorously. The seeds will fall into the bowl. Sprinkle them over your salad.
- Preheat the oven to broil. Put pine nuts on a metal baking dish and set under broiler to brown. Watch these carefully as they can burn quickly. Allow them to cool then scatter over the salad.
- Add salad dressing just before serving.
This looks absolutely delicious. I still have a few poms on hand too! In fact, I have everything but the lettuce…looks like I know what’s going on my grocery list today. 🙂
I love it’s nickname.. “pom” sounds so fun:) Hope it turns out as you’d imagined!
I made the salad last night! It was fantastic. The dressing was particularly good. 🙂 I did end up using walnuts though…burned the pine nuts. You were kidding about keeping an eye on them. LOL.
How wonderful to have such special friends and I do love Sue’s advice about a picnic and your salad is just perfect for the occasion.
🙂 Mandy
So true… I haven’t done the “indoors” picnic yet, I wish I had done this when my kids were little!
Sue’s advice is really quite sound. Concentrate your efforts and let others, when possible, pick up the slack. This salad works on so many levels, Beautiful to look at and the combo of pomegranate with feta and a touch of maple syrup must taste great!
It worked in our favor as well this week.. had a tow-truck recommendation and the guy was so great. It made the process so easy. (If only it made things a little less $$$:)
I love everything in this salad and have about half of it in the house, including the pomegranate. We’d probably eat it with walnuts, though (our usual stand-in for pine nuts since we live in California and walnuts are a local crop). Sue sounds like a wonderful friend.
You know, I was thinking I should have tried candied walnut pieces… in any event, it’s a good thing I didn’t because I’ve been eating a wee too much sugar lately (a girl has to test the product, don’t you know).
We’re Jonesing for sugar around here, Smidge — we eat a plain Thanksgiving meal with only pies in the dessert category (We make up for this at Christmas, however). But we also crave green things as they get scarce in the winter. If I have pine nuts, I use them: what we normally have are almonds and walnuts.
Loved your post today (not that that’s a new thing!) Liked a lot what Sue had to say. When we’ve been fortunate enough to develop close enduring friendships, why would we ever go trading them in on new ones? Keep and nurture them. Much good stuff to chew on in this post, Smidge! And then there’s the salad. Oh my! Gorgeous!
Likewise.. always a pleasure to stop by your website… Gotta nurture our fellow bloggers as well;)
I have seen so many recipes using pomegranate seeds, and I really must try this one to test our adventurous tongues. Did you use dried oregano?
I had some dried “more leafy” oregano here that worked so quickly… but I think fresh would be so much more fragrant!
That looks wonderful! I love the pairing with feta. Great photos too.
I guess it’s that sweet (maple syrup) salty combo that makes it so good… Thanks as always:)
Looks beautiful! I like the combination of the sweet tartness of pomegranate with the feta, great idea.
It is a great combination… and it is getting closer to Christmas:)
Yum! Feta & pomegranate!
🙂 it is a great blend of flavors… espec the salty feta…
That salad is stunning and your photo superb. I would love to eat this anytime but especially on a picnic.
Sigh.. it’s tough looking at photos when the dish is already eaten.. now I’m wishing I had just a bit more tonight for supper…
So pretty – we are being given plentu of pomegranates at the moment by lovely neighbours and it´s good to have a new way to use them!
Seriously!!?? You get them from your neighbors.. just handed to you in large amounts?? Now I truly am jealous… You’re so very fortunate!
How beautiful and festive!!
What a beautiful salad! Great for the holiday table!
Thanks Melanie and Stefanie:)
Delicious *and* picture-perfect salad. Accompanied by that most ideal of main courses, deep friendship. Wonderful!
Hmmm, yup, that’s what life’s all about food, wine, friends… er friends, wine, food..;)
What a beautifully festive salad! I love pomegranates! 🙂
Thanks Christina… me too:)
just divine, such a lovely balance and you are so lucky to have such wonderful old friends.. especially wonderful old friends who throw such great parties! c
Hey… careful with the “old” bit;) Heehee!
That is a darned goodlookin’ salad, and the awesome salad servers don’t hurt the eyes either. Beautiful!
I love those servers.. pretty but not too functional, they’re sooo heavy!! I think it was Pottery Barn years ago…
This salad looks really, really amazing and so festive, too! Perfect for the holiday season.
So glad you liked it:)
Oh this Pomegranate and Feta Salad looks absolutely amazing. And may I say, the table decor and the plate and utensils for the salad are amazing as well. Very nice
I sure enjoy setting up for photos…and then eating:)
Beautiful, Smidge, the seeds do look like rubies 😀
I never thought of it that way… they do!
What a nice memories and also to have a special friends… This salad seems so delicious… and beautiful photographs too. I will try as soon as… But the list will be without maple syrup! On the other hand, last night we had a salad with pomegranate molasses (tomatos, cucumbers, walnuts, green onions, parsley, lemon juice and olive oil and green pepper)… We like to use pomegrante in our food culture. But this Sue’s salad is new for me. Thank you dear Barbara, with my love, nia
You are counted as one of the special friends:) I don’t know what you could substitute maple syrup with? It’s a sweetener, so maybe agave or any other sweet syrup? Thanks as always for your lovely comments…. xo Barb
This is such a beautiful festive salad! I love the combination of feta and the tarness of the pomagrante! I so agree that friends are so very important in a woman’s life. I cherish each and every one of my sisters!
Yes, a great message for our kids… choose these people wisely and keep them close! Glad to have met you through blogging:)
Lovely post. And that salad looks and sounds divine. 🙂
Thanks so much! Now I shall go off to explore your website:) Take care.
What a colorful share!
Well, thanks:)
I love this recipe! I have been browsing through your posts and you have such a fantastic personality that really shines through in your blog. Keep up the good work!
Thanks so much, I love to have new readers:)