When We Were Small

What lies behind us and what lies before us
are small matters
compared to what lies within us.

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

camsgrannyJanuary 15, 2013 - 9:25 pm

This just hit me at the right time…THANK YOU so much for this you have no idea…

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 15, 2013 - 9:28 pm

It was a difficult one for me to write.. but I promised to be authentic here. I’m so glad it helped you in some way? xx

Robyn LeeJanuary 15, 2013 - 9:38 pm

Very beautiful Barbara ~ could feel the emotional charge with each verse. x Robyn

Bam's KitchenJanuary 15, 2013 - 9:50 pm

I have a tear running down my cheek and I have goose bumps! Barbara it is beautiful. Hugs to you. BAM

ShiraJanuary 15, 2013 - 9:55 pm

Beautiful Barbara! Lovely poem & quote – thank you! Happy New Year!

EhaJanuary 15, 2013 - 9:55 pm

Yesterday was but a cancelled cheque and tomorrow a promissory note: it is the today which counts . . . when we were small . . . when we learned what it all was about, this > brought us to today . . . .

Claire @ Claire K CreationsJanuary 15, 2013 - 9:57 pm

So beautiful Barbara x

ClanmotherJanuary 15, 2013 - 9:59 pm

And so we continue…

ChgoJohnJanuary 15, 2013 - 10:05 pm

A beautiful and special post, Barb. Your verse, the photo, Emerson’s words. You’ve combined them all to create a moving piece. Thank you.

BrittanyJanuary 15, 2013 - 10:30 pm

Amazingly put. As always beautiful words!

The Healthy FlavorJanuary 15, 2013 - 10:47 pm

Moved me. Touched me. Made me think of my daughter. Thank you. I always enjoy your posts.

thecompletecookbookJanuary 15, 2013 - 11:49 pm

BEAUTIFUL!
:-) Mandy xo

TandyJanuary 16, 2013 - 1:06 am

What an apt quote and beautiful poem Smidge! Last night my sister found photos of us as kids so this title was perfect for me today :)

niasunsetJanuary 16, 2013 - 1:22 am

What a beautiful post, your poetical spirit talks into the words and also in these amazing photographs. Fascinated me so much, Thank you dear Barbara, with my love, nia

Food,Photography & FranceJanuary 16, 2013 - 1:44 am

Lovely post. Glad we haven’t got that much snow – I’m cold enough as it is:)

MiskyJanuary 16, 2013 - 2:28 am

Wise words, Barbara. Gorgeous photos, too.

originalapplejunkieJanuary 16, 2013 - 2:37 am

What an amazing piece :)

Chica AndaluzaJanuary 16, 2013 - 3:53 am

Beautiful – very moving…

Choc Chip UruJanuary 16, 2013 - 3:55 am

That was simply beautiful my friend…

Cheers
Choc Chip Uru

Profiteroles & PonytailsJanuary 16, 2013 - 4:22 am

While my hands are often pressed against crayoned papers these days, I know it won’t always be this way. Thanks for the reminder to embrace and enjoy each stage, as each one leaves an imprint on our hearts differently. Beautiful post Barb.

hotlyspicedJanuary 16, 2013 - 5:03 am

What beautiful words, Smidge. I love browsing through book shops – it seems such a great way to spend time. One day I found a children’s book, ‘When You Were Small’. It was beautifully illustrated with great words and I loved to read it to my son. Your beautiful words reminded me of that book xx

Norma ChangJanuary 16, 2013 - 5:37 am

Very touching, as I read your poem, I thought of the different growth stages of my kids, thanks for a trip down memory lane. Love the Ralph Waldo Emerson quote.

spreeJanuary 16, 2013 - 6:44 am

What a heart-grippingly, hauntingly beautiful poem, Barb. What parent doesn’t know something of this? I’m grateful for such honesty as you bring to this space Smidge. Such quality and integrity mark your work. Thank you for it. And your photos break my heart wide open!! Exquisiteness here this morning. xxx

TessaJanuary 16, 2013 - 6:59 am

Beautiful

sallybrJanuary 16, 2013 - 7:12 am

Beautiful poem! Wonderful quote, wonderful photos, made me think and look inside.

Laurie J RonanJanuary 16, 2013 - 7:23 am

How do you do that, how do y?ou write from my heart

vivekaJanuary 16, 2013 - 8:16 am

Barbara, is there anything you can’t do ????? Not a poem girl, but I really like this one – and the photos – stunning, especially the last, the close up. Always so wonderful to visit your world.

gastrogardenerJanuary 16, 2013 - 8:21 am

With my first child about to turn 21, this rings so true. Thank you for the gentle moment.

KristyJanuary 16, 2013 - 8:39 am

Brought tears to my eyes. I’m hanging this one on my office wall. It’s a beautiful reminder of the important things in life. Thank you Smidge.

Judy @Savoring TodayJanuary 16, 2013 - 8:56 am

This brought so many images to my mind, things remembered, cherished, some forgotten until your words stirred them awake again. Thank you.

KaristaJanuary 16, 2013 - 9:47 am

You are one of my favorite writers Smidge. You make the written word a piece of art. Love!

bitsandbreadcrumbsJanuary 16, 2013 - 9:58 am

Beautiful and beautifully haunting. You’re so gifted, Smidge. Thanks for sharing those gifts with us.

Vinny GretteJanuary 16, 2013 - 10:02 am

What a beautiful blog you have! I tried to do a photo index but found it took a lot of time. Are you on WordPress? Is there an easy way I just haven’t yet discovered? I’m a member of food bloggers of Canada too but haven’t participated yet. Looks like it has done well by you – not to mention your wonderful content!

Eva TaylorJanuary 16, 2013 - 10:31 am

Incredible photos, it looks like you’re getting hit hard with snow. All of our snow melted last week when we had our warm front move in, now it’s chilly again and we’ll be getting our’s on Friday. Wish us well.

pjb1943January 16, 2013 - 11:35 am

Wonderful poem, Barb. Brought back a lot of memories. The pictures are great also. Are they recent – are you really getting that much snow? Luckily, ours has come more in the form or rain recently. We still have Feb/Mar to go though.
Best to ya.
Paul

yummychunkletJanuary 16, 2013 - 12:03 pm

Lovely.

cravesadventureJanuary 16, 2013 - 12:38 pm

Beautiful – gave me goose bumps – brings back the memories for me:) Have a Great One!

Three Well BeingsJanuary 16, 2013 - 12:41 pm

This is a powerful poem. I want to print it out and keep it close. It is very special. oxo

shannonJanuary 16, 2013 - 3:24 pm

your poem is beautiful, Barbara; just beautiful. I have tears in my eyes.

Coleen PatrickJanuary 16, 2013 - 4:50 pm

Beautiful post Barbara . . :)

writerwannabe763January 16, 2013 - 5:21 pm

So touching and beautiful…Diane

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 16, 2013 - 6:05 pm

If you want to email me I can go into more detail. If you have categories.. Click on the category you want (eg. Appetizers) and copy the url in your browser. Then select and upload the photo you wish to use as the button for your photo index Appetizer category. Once it’s uploaded, change the url (at bottom right) and paste in the url you’ve copied. That makes the photo redirect to your category page Appetizers when you click on it. As long as you have each of your posts categorized.. They all automatically appear for you:)

Celia @ Fig Jam and Lime CordialJanuary 17, 2013 - 2:10 am

xxx

petit4chocolatierJanuary 17, 2013 - 3:57 am

Beautiful poem Barbara! Reminds me of my children whom are now 20 but still need a hidden hand of help. I know I have said this many, many times.., your blog is so elegant and lovely. The horse pictures are stunning, and I love the quote!!

rachnasirtajJanuary 17, 2013 - 4:40 am

WOW !! Thank you xx

SarahJanuary 17, 2013 - 6:27 am

Just wow. I’ve been speechless since I read this the day it came to my email. I’m still speechless, but wanted to let you know that it’s beautiful….and sticking with me this week. xxoo

divaofdeliciousJanuary 17, 2013 - 1:56 pm

Both of my big kids moved out of the house since the new year so this poem is so touching and meaningful. Thank you for arranging these mom feelings into such beautiful words :)

glutenfreezenJanuary 17, 2013 - 3:15 pm

What beautiful words, Barb. And some of the most beautiful photos I’ve ever seen! xoxo

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 6:15 pm

Mine are still at home thankfully.. I’m glad you enjoyed this one:)

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 6:20 pm

Thank you, April:)

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 6:21 pm

Thank you Sarah.. I’m glad it touched you:) xxx

musingmarJanuary 17, 2013 - 6:22 pm

Your lovely poetry touched my heart. Sometimes I almost cannot bear the achingly sweet nostalgia of looking back through photo albums of my children when they were little. I treasure them now, but miss those little hands and sweet upturned faces. But, oh, how I am blessed to have new little hands to hold, sweet voices calling “Nana!” and outstretched arms reaching up for hugs that fill me with joy and take me back to when my children were little. I hope you have the blessing of grandchildren someday.

ceciliaJanuary 17, 2013 - 6:33 pm

gorgeous, gorgeous.. I would love to have a horsey.. c

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 6:37 pm

I loved that quote, I found it first and it inspired me.. plus personal events did the same. xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:41 pm

It was an emotionally difficult one to write.. thanks so much, Robyn xo

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:41 pm

Thanks, Bam.. hugs to you too xoxo

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:42 pm

Thank you, Shira.. Happy New Year to you as well:)

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:42 pm

I can always count on you to have such beautiful words in response.. xoxo

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:42 pm

Thank you so much, Claire:)

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:43 pm

:)

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:43 pm

Thanks, John, I love Emerson’s work.

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:43 pm

Thanks, Brittanyxo

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:44 pm

You’re welcome xoxo

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:44 pm

xoxo

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:44 pm

Time certainly flies.. I love seeing our old photos from when we were young:) xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:45 pm

Your words are so lovely too, nia, thanks so much xoxo

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:46 pm

These photos were taken after a heavy snowstorm up on Silver Star Mountain.. just before an afternoon of snowmobiling. Calgary had snow.. and now it’s gone, it’s been chinooking these last few days:) Stay warm!

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:46 pm

Thanks, Miskyxoxo

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:46 pm

xo

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:46 pm

Thank you :)

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:47 pm

xoxo

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:48 pm

Those are just some of the most beautiful years of joy! I remember them well! xxoo

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:50 pm

I looked for this book.. I wondered if it was one from my teaching days.. but it is a newer one, I’ll have to look for it:) I love remembering my kid’s books. xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:50 pm

He’s one of my favorite poets. I’m glad you enjoyed mine today, Norma. xxoo

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:51 pm

spree.. you are always so generous with your words.. they bring me joy:) xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:51 pm

xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:51 pm

Thanks, Sally! xxx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:52 pm

I’m lucky if I’ve done so.. xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:52 pm

I thought those horses were so sweet.. they were quite friendly and curious:) xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:53 pm

We have children the same age:) so you understand..

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:53 pm

I always love seeing you play and cook with your children.. it’s a joy to see! xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:54 pm

I’m glad to have brought you these.. those are cherished years for sure.. xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:54 pm

Thanks, Karista.. and you’re one of my favorite chefs:) xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:54 pm

Thank you, Betsy! xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:56 pm

We did have snow.. but these photos are from Vernon on Silver Star mountain. It had just dumped and the area was magical! I hope your snow isn’t too bad tomorrow!! xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:58 pm

Just over Christmas when we were in Vernon for X-Country skiing. I would love if it was rain here.. it would be nice and green, not to say warmer:)

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:58 pm

xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:59 pm

Thanks so much :)

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 8:59 pm

One day I will have to put these in a little coffee table book to look back.. so many memories:) xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 9:00 pm

I did as I wrote this one.. it is very close to home.. I’m glad you enjoyed it. xxx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 9:00 pm

Thanks, Diane xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 9:00 pm

xxx to you!

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 9:00 pm

xxx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 9:01 pm

You’re welcome :)

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 9:02 pm

I can’t wait to have grandchildren and I hope I am blessed with at least one:) Thank you for this reminder.. there is so much to look forward to, isn’t there? xxx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 17, 2013 - 9:02 pm

Oooooh, you need one for the farmy:) xxx

vivekaJanuary 18, 2013 - 4:26 am

Your shots are good, especially the last … personal am I a bit afraid of horses. Stunning animals, but when they come closer they are really high and big.

ceciliaJanuary 18, 2013 - 5:19 am

I know, not enough room for that big a pet though! c

kateshrewsdayJanuary 18, 2013 - 8:16 am

Really affecting, Barbara. A beautiful poem and just gorgrous pictures.

KarenJanuary 19, 2013 - 5:43 am

Beautiful and well written…thank you for sharing.

VictoriaJanuary 19, 2013 - 12:57 pm

Beautiful! LOVE the second photo!

jdtphotography.co.ukJanuary 21, 2013 - 3:22 am

Barbara, the words and images a truly wonderful. Is there to be a book soon?

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenJanuary 23, 2013 - 10:37 pm

I’ve made my own hardcover.. it’s so wonderful to look through the past year in print:)

jdtphotography.co.ukJanuary 24, 2013 - 9:41 am

Wonderful!

Gretchen O'DonnellFebruary 1, 2013 - 9:47 am

My heart is full – and breaking. Lovely and rich and full of mother-truth.

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenFebruary 4, 2013 - 11:36 pm

This one was difficult to write.. there is a story behind it and many tears as well. Some day I’ll share the rest of the story. I hear there are poetry books called Chap Books, where an author publishes a small, inexpensive book of poems. Thanks so much for your kind words.

Keep Calm and Eat OnFebruary 5, 2013 - 6:37 pm

Barbara, this poem, I have read over and over again. It has this capacity to reach deep down into your heart and tug it and squish it…I don’t even know if I can explain how beautifully it lays in my head and heart. You have a special talent, very special.

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