childhood memories jumbled in cluttered boxes of photographs
thoughts, sounds, and words
illuminated
in a light-sensitive flashed exposure.
A family reunion in Champion, Alberta,
with tables groaning under sturdy 4-H plates of prized recipes made out of rough Prairie Kitchen hands.
Reflections manifested in sepia, black, grey and white, as monachrome images click and flicker past
long before technicolor keepsakes arrived, cheek by jowl with Polaroid film, Fruit Loops and Color TV.
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Daisy, Daisy, give me your answer do.
I’m half crazy all
for the love of you.
It won’t be a stylish marriage,
I can’t afford a carriage.
But you’ll look sweet,
Upon the seat,
Of a bicycle made for two.
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What girl would dare to ride on a Bicycle Built for Two?
Not the wistful, gawky, knobby-kneed prairie urchin checking out the dessert table.
But she knew the words off by heart and that must count for something..
after all, her mom would sing them out at least once a week with chores.
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Harry, Harry,
here is your answer true.
I’m not crazy all for the love of you.
There won’t be any marriage,
If you can’t
afford a carriage.
‘Cause I’ll be switched,
If I get hitched,
On a bicycle built for two!
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This was no Frank Lloyd Wright prairie house..
but a home planked and porched with resolve, tenacity, and plucky survival.
The Great Depression was a close relative and families grew up frugal
and food was always
made from scratch..
not on a whim or trend, but because
it had to be.
It was a Canadian custom, after all,
for food to be made with loving hands, shared on vintage cloth-draped tables..
until generations later when it was plunked on arborite counters, right next to dial up phones
and harvest colored tupperware.
These recipes are so much more than an inheritance of ingredients..
but a gift of love.
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“This is how it’s done,” she would instruct,
and the next cake would be baked in an oven and placed on the table with families and loved ones seated ’round.
Recipes flew over fluttering clotheslines on prairie winds and drifting,
settled on kitchen tables, where they were scratched out in careful script with names in corners
..then eked out of butter and eggs found in a time of hoarded copper pennies.
“This is an easy recipe, with only a few ingredients.. it will keep for two or three days.. if it lasts that long.”
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What I love most about this recipe.. is that it was always doubled and made in a 9×13 pan, then placed on the counter so that a person could slice off a sliver while they were chatting on the phone. You see, the cord would only stretch so long! One person would cut on a 45° angle to get the most of the cake portion (their favorite part) and the next person would come along and swoop with delight.. cutting on a 45° angle in the opposite direction to get the most of the icing (their favorite part). It was a cooperation at its finest. We also believe that as long as you only had a sliver, there were fewer calories involved.
When boxed cake mixes and jellos hit the shelves they were embraced with fervor.. and made from scratch cakes were, temporarily, a thing of the past. In my mother’s home, ice cream was added if the dessert didn’t measure up.
My grandpa’s nickname for my mom, as a young child, was Middle Biscuit.. Every Saturday morning, my mom and Grandfather would make the trip to the bakery with Timmy the cocker spaniel. They’d pick up a batch of cinnamon buns and my mom would always get the middle one with the most icing.. and so, Middle Biscuit she was!
My Grandma Nell managed to stay slim because her father told her she should always leave the table wanting more. Oranges were treasured because they received them at Christmas time in a barrel sent by a relative in New York.. along with clothes and other items.
I selected this recipe as “My First Authentic Canadian Food Memory” because it was the cake most often perched on the counter and when I was going through my Dad’s Mom’s recipe box.. there it was, written in long-hand by my Grandma Harriett with my mom’s name in the right hand corner.
It seemed the perfect recipe to share because both sides of my family had a hand (literally) in the making of this cake. As with many of these recipes, the lack of instructions was a bit daunting. It seems they baked so much they didn’t need directions.. just the short-hand list of ingredients!
The cake stand in the photos was passed down to me from my Dad’s Grandparents. It was given to my Great Grandma Brown by her mother.. so it is well over 100 years old now.
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While I am passionate about almost all flowers, the Daisy is probably my favorite.. it grows in abundance at my parent’s cabin at Mabel Lake.
In my heart, the beauty of the daisy lies in its simplicity
… like daisy chain-linked memories.
Lazy Daisy Cake
- 2 eggs
- 1 cup white sugar
- 1 cup all-purpose flour
- pinch salt
- 1 tsp baking powder
- 2 tbsp butter
- 1/2 cup milk
- 1 tsp vanilla
- Topping
- 5 tbsp brown sugar
- 2 tbsp butter, melted
- 2 tbsp milk
- 1/2 cup fancy flaked coconut
- 1/4 cup chopped walnuts, optional
- Preheat oven to 350F.
- Grease and flour a 9x9" pan or a 10" round cake tin.
- Beat eggs until thick and creamy. Add sugar and beat to mix well. Mix flour, baking powder and salt in a separate medium sized bowl. Melt butter in the microwave in a heat-proof measuring cup. Measure milk and vanilla into the butter and microwave again just to warm the milk.
- Add the flour mixture to the egg and sugar mixture, just blending until combined. Mix in the milk and butter mixture. Pour into prepared cake pan.
- Bake for 25-30 minutes or until lightly browned and a skewer poked in the center comes out clean.
- Mix together the topping ingredients and spoon over the warm cake. Gently spread the topping over the top to the edges of the cake with the back of the spoon. Turn the oven on broil and set the cake pan about 4" below the broiler. Broil just until the topping begins to bubble, lightly brown and caramelize. Keep an eye on it so it doesn't burn. Don't over-broil or the topping will become a chewy, candied texture.
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I was delighted to receive an invitation to participate in The Canadian Food Experience Project by Valerie Lugonja and her Canadian Foodie blog. She had the pleasure of attending the first ever Food Blogger’s of Canada Conference this year where Dana McCauley issued a “Call to Action”… Food lovers from across the provinces of Canada are joining hands to celebrate our Canadian identity through food and storytelling. How could I not join in with the chorus of passionate food writers? Please join us if you are a Canadian Foodie.. and if you don’t have a blog, you can share your recipes and memories on Facebook!
what a beautiful post! and would you believe daisies are my
mom’s favorite flower?
the handwritten recipe was so touching…
loved it all….
Thanks, Sally, my Gran’s handwriting always stirs up such wonderful feelings and memories! xx
What a gorgeous poetic moment over a lovely old cake that finds me at the kitchen table in our bungalow in Red Deer, feet dangling on the chrome chair. Melmac turquoise plate with a slice of Lazy Daisy cake on it. My dad’s eyes popping with both dimples welcoming his much bigger slice. The house seemed so big. The cake was so yummy… but I pretended I didn’t like the icing as my dad said it was his favourite part… just so he could have mine. I loved that. It was so rare that I could give anything back to my dad, and the Lazy Daisy cake is a reminder of that one tiny sacrifice I was able to make as a young child that made me feel that I had made my dad’s day a little bit better. He was (and is) such a champion and has always been a light in my life!
Thrilled you are participating, Barb
Valerie
I’m so glad to stir up great memories for you, Valerie.. I think this Project will be doing a lot of that! I hope other readers are inspired to share their Canadian recipes, this is such a great project for us as a country! xx
I see many buds on my daisies. They should be in full bloom soon and I will be thinking of you.
A beautiful and touching post, thanks for sharing.
Thank you Norma, I have a tiny bush in the front, I hope they come up soon.. but I don’t expect so with all our rain!
Beautiful daisies! I love your background story of that cake.You have manage to tell it very eloquently.
Glad you got hold of your family’s lazy daisy cake and managed to share the handwritten version with us!
Every family should have a great cake recipe to be passed down through the generations. My mother doesn’t bake so perhaps this will have to start with me. I already have a few books of handwritten recipes. Hopefully, someone else down the line would find them useful.
The white daisies are just incredibly beautiful in their simplicity and the nostalgia they evoke. I love them, too, and my own grandmother grew them in abundance. What lovely memories and family treasures you’ve shared, Smidge. I can definitely sense the love in the cake and the beautiful cake plate. You create such loveliness in everything you do and share, my friend. ox
It’s my way to “exhale”:D Thanks so much Deb! xx
I love, absolutely love stories and recipes that have history and Smidge, this is one! What a wonderful memory, I am so pleased you shared this one with us, thank you! While daisies are really (I kid you not) one of my favourite wild flowers, I can’t stand the way they smell — I know, weird! But I just adore them on your beautiful heirloom cake, very nice indeed. I do love a cake with lots of coconut, I’m bookmarking this one for sure.
What lovely words, Smidge and of course, lovely images to match. My mother’s old recipe cards are exactly the same – sparse on detail. I think they cooked so often and were such intuitive cooks that they just had a lot of common sense when it came to cooking and didn’t need detail-itis – something our generation is obsessed with xx
Love the cake by the phone story. That’s what happens to cakes here. People take smaller and smaller slices as less of the cake is left. They seem to last forever, but forever is about 2 days. Lovely still lives and recipe.
Wonderful memories, Barb, and a beautiful post. I think its fantastic that you’ve a box of family recipes and very generous of you to share both, memories and recipes, with us. I’ve 2 notebooks that contain a number of half recipes from Mom. They’re like trying to assemble a jigsaw puzzle with half the pieces missing. Maybe I should borrow a page from your book and get some daisies. I doubt I’ll be any closer to solving the puzzle but at least I’ll have some daisies to admire. 🙂
Such a pretty daisy cake!
What a pretty cake, and such an evocative post. Some great memories there for sure. And OH MAN do I love the idea of the Canadian Food Experience Project! Gonna have to jump on board with that one… 🙂
I rarely seen handwritten recipes nowadays, I think the last one I saw was when I was in Grade School. This is a nice and simple one!
Incredible post – thank you for sharing so many wonderful memories with us. I loved this recipe – so simple and straighforward and yet look at the beautiful, elegant cake!
What a beautiful heartfelt post, thank you for sharing a special recipe!
How lovely of you to share such special recipe with us Barb. Thanks! I loved this post. 🙂
Just look at how yummy that cakes look. I will definitely have to pass this recipe on to my mother. She will love this
It’s totally true that a sliver of cake only has the merest handful of calories! At least that’s what I always tell me self. 😉 Fun post, and great recipe. Really nice – thanks.
Your post made me smile from ear to ear! What beautiful photos! Thank you for sharing, it certainly brightened my day x
What a great post for your families! The picture of the original recipe is classic! Beautiful cake and gorgeous post!
Truly lyrical, and all the more precious because it brought so many of my own memories bubbling up as I read it. Thank you, Smidge! Sweet writing and a sweet recipe from a sweetheart. xo! Kath
Just beautiful!!
Gorgeous cake. I think if I presented this to Liz she would be all smiles. 🙂
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What beautiful memories and thoughts to share, and food is so often a shared memory, especially when the food is as good as this.
And the daisies are beautiful, I always think the light up a garden, which reminds me, I need more daisies 🙂
Barbara, thank you for a fantastic start to my Sunday. My face is lit with a smile! “Middle Biscuit” is possibly the most wonderful nickname I’ve come across. And that black and white photo so superbly captures the essence of this post. Handwritten recipes are so very special, aren’t they?
I have daisies in the house right now. Their simplicity is incredibly cheerful. I’ll photograph them in your honour! Much love. X
What an adorable post for a cake.
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How I love your post. It brings back so many memories for me, too. Lazy Daisy cake was what we often made at home on the prairies, also. They were ingredients we always had on hand. Love your photos and your poetry!
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