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Man’s Best Friend

  If you’ve been a friend of Just a Smidgen for a while, you may have gotten to know a very special Pupster in our lives. We are so saddened to let you know that we have lost our best friend, we were the luckiest family ever to have been blessed with 15+ years of…

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Lynda - TasteFoodMay 17, 2013 - 5:38 pm

Oh no, I am so so sorry!
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AprilMay 17, 2013 - 5:46 pm

Oh, Barbara. I’m so so sorry. Lots of love and hugs to you.

~ April
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Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenMay 17, 2013 - 5:50 pm

Thanks, Lynda and April.. I never knew it would be so hard:(

SallyBRMay 17, 2013 - 6:00 pm

Oh, dear… so so sorry…

she lived a long life, but it never seems to be long enough…

I imagine how many tears you shed, and send you a warm virtual hug….
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Kelly @ Inspired EdiblesMay 17, 2013 - 6:04 pm

So, so sorry for your loss Smidge. I dashed over immediately when I saw word on FB. There is nothing quite like the love and companionship of a dog and my heart is breaking with you. What a blessed 15 years you had together. Hugs, tears, love – xoxo.
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LorraineMay 17, 2013 - 6:07 pm

Oh Barb, I am so sorry for loss of a big part of your family. I have been there and these little personalities make our hearts and homes fuller. Thinking of you!

Emilie@TheClevercarrotMay 17, 2013 - 6:42 pm

Oh Smidge! I have a knot in my throat after reading this. I am sooooo sorry for your loss. Lucky lived a beautiful life with you and your family- may he live on in your heart, always. Big hugs & love (and chocolate if I could give you some!) Hang in there :) xoxoxo

MarleneMay 17, 2013 - 6:48 pm

Oh, Barb, I’m so sorry to hear you’ve lost your lovely little dog. I know how raw this feels right now, and my heart goes out to you. A few years ago I lost my feisty little Fritz, my steadfast Miniature Schnauzer companion of 13 years. It was hard for all of us, but as time goes on we heal. I always said that during the time when my kids were going through their teenage years, Fritz was often the only one who seemed to be glad when I came home at the end of the day. He’d always rush to the door, barking with excitement, and then give me a welcome home goose under my skirt. Rather embarrassing, but something to laugh about. I miss that bond.

Take good care during this sad time, and savour the memories of Lucky and your family.
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Bam's KitchenMay 17, 2013 - 7:18 pm

Dear Smidge, I am very sorry for your loss. A man’s best’s friend loss is just as traumatic as a loss of a person. I hope that you can cherish your lovely 15 years and Lucky was indeed lucky to be with your family during his lifetime. Take care, BAM
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T.DashfieldMay 17, 2013 - 7:30 pm

Sorry for your loss, Lucky was a sweetie.
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Claire @ Claire K CreationsMay 17, 2013 - 7:33 pm

So sorry Barbara xx

jacquieMay 17, 2013 - 8:04 pm

I’m very sorry on your loss.

RuthMay 17, 2013 - 9:11 pm

Oh I am so sorry for your loss of your faithful companion. What a lovely photo and tribute post. It’s hard to lose a much loved member of the family. RIP dear sweet Lucky
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Hotly SpicedMay 17, 2013 - 9:50 pm

I am so sorry to hear this, Smidge. Such a gorgeous, pretty little dog. There is no good news in this sort of story but I’m relieved you all arrived home from your holiday in time to be together again. From one dog owner to another, I’m sending you lots of love xx
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TraceyMay 18, 2013 - 1:23 am

Barbara, so sorry you have lost a big part of your family, I know from experience losing a beloved dog is every bit as devastating as the loss of a person you love. We spend all our time with our pup companions and they give us unique and unconditional love. Glad he was with you for so long and has left a legacy of many special memories. Tracey x.

MimiMay 18, 2013 - 2:33 am

That is the worst. We’ve been through it once, and we now have three more dogs. I wish they could all live longer. So sorry.
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movita beaucoupMay 18, 2013 - 5:02 am

Oh, the joy our wee friends bring to us – and the sadness when they have to leave. Sending you love from my corner of the cosmos…

xox
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jamaMay 18, 2013 - 5:20 am

SO sorry to hear this news. Thanks for sharing your beautiful memories with him. Love and HUGS to you.
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Roger StowellMay 18, 2013 - 6:39 am

very sorry to hear about the loss of your little dog. I got so miserable each time that we lost a pet, so I truly sympathise with your sadness.

cecilia buyswheeler guntherMay 18, 2013 - 7:40 am

Oh Barbara darling girl that is so sad, 15 years is a very long time indeed. I am sorry. Out-living your dear dog is one of the things we all know will come but when it comes it is heartbreaking.. my thoughts are with you.. celi
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MiskyMay 18, 2013 - 8:44 am

Oh, Barbara, I am so very sorry and sad for you. My thoughts are with you.
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NancyCMay 18, 2013 - 8:50 am

So sorry to hear about little Lucky. Thank you for sharing your sweet memories of him, and I hope those memories bring you comfort now.

BrittanyMay 18, 2013 - 9:59 am

Oh my gosh this broke my heart. How amazing that your strong little Lucky hung in there until you all got home.!! What a life you gave to him! RIP Lucky!!

TessaMay 18, 2013 - 10:50 am

I am sorry for your loss. Hugs to you and your family.
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Choc Chip UruMay 18, 2013 - 1:44 pm

I’m so sorry for your loss my friend :(
Sending my love!

Hugs
Uru
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VivekaMay 18, 2013 - 1:52 pm

So sorry for your family’s big lost … I know that feeling too well.
Beautiful post … for a beautiful friend and family member – the photo is so wonderful too.
A love story that will stay with you all forever. True love and friendship,gone … but never forgotten.

KathrynMay 18, 2013 - 5:09 pm

Never was a dog more aptly named: he was lucky as can be to be so loved. My condolences on the loss of such a dear friend.
xoxo
Kath
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AnnaMay 18, 2013 - 6:21 pm

Ah Smidge. I am so so sorry to hear this. My childhood dog, Blackie, passed away while I was at college. When I come home I still look for him and miss his squeaky excited bark. Recently my grandparents got another dog (Ladybug) that looks very similar to him. I did a double take the first time I saw her. I would like to think a little bit of Blackie is in Ladybug. I think I can see him in her eyes sometimes…. Hugs and love to you from afar. It will get easier slowly but surely.

writerwannabe763May 18, 2013 - 9:26 pm

Oh I am so sorry for your family’s loss. It is so hard losing our ‘pet’ members of our family. We have gone through this loss several times and it never gets easier. Thoughts are with you… Diane
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ChgoJohnMay 19, 2013 - 12:16 am

Truly sorry, Barb, to read this post and learn of Lucky’s parting. Knowing you as I have come to, Lucky was indeed blessed to have found his way into your home where, for 15 years, he was treated like family and not a pet. My thoughts are with your and your family.
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RaymundMay 19, 2013 - 2:37 am

My deepest condolences Barbara
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Lisa the Gourmet WogMay 19, 2013 - 2:44 am

I’m so sorry for your loss Barbara, he certainly looked like a very loved member of the family x
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Chica AndaluzaMay 19, 2013 - 4:38 am

My deepest condolences to you and your family, it’s so hard to lose a very loved member of the family. In time you’ll only rememeber the good times, but right now it’s tough. Sending love to you all.
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Mandy - The Complete Cook BookMay 19, 2013 - 6:55 am

Smidge, I am so very sorry to hear about Lucky’s passing. I am sending you a warm love filled hug to ease the heartache.
What a wonderful tribute to your darling four legged baby.
:-) Mandy xo
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Zainab KhawajaMay 19, 2013 - 1:04 pm

Beautiful header image and beautiful post. It is good memories that stay with us through the years. Happy doggy heaven for the pup!

CristaMay 19, 2013 - 5:28 pm

awwwwww. I’m so sorry…
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KristyMay 19, 2013 - 8:51 pm

Oh Smidge! My thoughts are with you and your family. I know that pain all too well. Thank you for sharing some of your treasured memories of Lucky. I’m happy to hear he waited until you all returned home and was at peace with you. That’s as it should be. Warmest thoughts. Kristy
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Sibella at bakingwithsibella.comMay 19, 2013 - 8:51 pm

Dear Barb, I am so sorry to hear about Lucky’s passing. I often think if people loved like dogs, this world be a perfect place. I am sure he is now roaming heavenly fields, chasing squirrels, smelling flowers until one day you meet again… Love to you dear friend!

mjskitMay 19, 2013 - 9:17 pm

Oh Sweetie – I’m so sorry for your loss. :( Lots and lots of hugs!
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VictoriaMay 19, 2013 - 9:40 pm

So very sorry to hear of your loss. Pets are…family! A very sweet post in memory of your sweet Pupster! ~ Blessings!
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SunnyMay 19, 2013 - 11:44 pm

My condolences.
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EmilieMay 20, 2013 - 7:54 am

Smidge, this is such awful news! Lucky looks like such a great loving dog. You and your family are in my thoughts this morning.
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AnonymousMay 20, 2013 - 9:39 am

I’m soryy
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AnonymousMay 20, 2013 - 9:43 am

I’m sorry to hear that you had say goodbye to your friend!
I know what it is like to miss a companion who became more then a family member.
I wish you all the best the coming period.
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ReneeMay 20, 2013 - 4:42 pm

Oh No – I know how much this little guy meant to you and your family – so hard to lose a devoted, loves unconditionally family member – sending thoughts and prayers.
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Coleen PatrickMay 20, 2013 - 7:41 pm

Hugs, Barbara.

Gretchen O'DonnellMay 21, 2013 - 9:03 am

I’m so sorry. Truly, pets are part of our families. I loved the memories you shared!
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AnonymousMay 21, 2013 - 1:27 pm

Barbara, I’m saddened to hear you’ve lost your little friend. Being a dog owner I know how attached one becomes to them. Remember the happy memories to help get through the sad days. Rhoda xxxx

PS MacMurrayMay 21, 2013 - 4:30 pm

Ho! Smidge! Speechless. Be well.
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Karen (Back Road Journal)May 21, 2013 - 6:52 pm

I know he will be missed by the entire family but you have lots of wonderful memories.
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The Isle of Capri

I’ve missed you!   I promised you a seascape upon my return to the land of Smidgen.. the island you see above is the Isle of Capri located just off the coast of Sorrento in Italy.We took a ferry across after spending days wandering through Sorrento, drinking in the sites, the wine and devouring plates…

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KorenaMay 15, 2013 - 9:03 am

Welcome home Smidge! I was beginning to wonder where you’d disappeared to. What a wonderful holiday – can’t wait to hear more!
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MiskyMay 15, 2013 - 9:09 am

Welcome back, and thank you for sharing your wonderful adventure!
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LindsayMay 15, 2013 - 9:12 am

I fell in love with Sorrento and Capri when I visited in 1999! Thank you for writing this post and the lovely photos. It makes me so nostalgic!!

KaristaMay 15, 2013 - 9:13 am

Heaven! What a lovely story in pictures. As always Smidge, absolutely beautiful. I love your artistic eye. dreamy :)
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CindyMay 15, 2013 - 9:16 am

Absolutely gorgeous blog! I can’t wait to visit Capri after seeing your photos!

Mandy - The Complete Cook BookMay 15, 2013 - 9:38 am

Welcome home Smidge! What a magical trip, thank you for sharing it with us. I was transported to Capri and what exquisite keep sakes you brought home with you.
Have a beautiful day.
:-) Mandy xo
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Mad DogMay 15, 2013 - 9:48 am

It sounds like you had a wonderful holiday :-)
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AnonymousMay 15, 2013 - 10:21 am

It sounds like the ideal holiday. I hope you enjoyed yourself. R x

ClaireMay 15, 2013 - 10:40 am

Welcome home Smidge, and ooooo a lovely holiday! I like the idea of wine and sun and food and meandering. In fact I like that idea lots and could quite happily do it for a living :) I’m sure I’d make a great job out of it!
It looks like your scape was a lovely welcome home
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Just Add AttitudeMay 15, 2013 - 11:22 am

It sounds like you had a wonderful time in Italy. Might a gelato recipe be coming to Just a Smidgen soon? I hope the jet lag is beginning to fade.xo
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DebjaniMay 15, 2013 - 12:19 pm

Looking forward to reading the rest of your journey and living vicariously through them.

SallyBRMay 15, 2013 - 12:24 pm

Welcome back! I saw some of your photos on facebook and was wondering when you would pop up back on your spot to say hello… or “ciao” ;-)

beautiful shots, including the incredibly beautiful first one

enjoy your home, and relax… we’ll be here waiting for your next post
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AnonymousMay 15, 2013 - 1:25 pm

Oh you lucky traveler you!

AnonymousMay 15, 2013 - 1:26 pm

Whoops, I am not anonymous I just hit the wrong button. WB Smidgey

CeliaMay 15, 2013 - 2:16 pm

Oh Smidge, what a gorgeous post!! I have to ask – was the floor actually bumpy and wavy, or was it flat and the waviness was an optical illusion?
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A Canadian FoodieMay 15, 2013 - 2:26 pm

I was also at Capri a couple of Springs ago… and so disappointed. Maybe I just want to go everywhere I visit, back in time, as well – about 50 years? We took a boat and did the grotto… nothing like I expected. Everything was so commercial. No big men in white suits with white fedoras and large cigars. Where did they go? The romantic place is gone. The commercialism is left. But, I had to go. Would I recommend it? No. Only if you live there.
:)
Valerie
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Choc Chip UruMay 15, 2013 - 2:31 pm

Welcome home my friend and thank you for sharing your trip! All I see is beauty everywhere it is so exciting :)

Cheers
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KristyMay 15, 2013 - 3:39 pm

Welcome home Smidge! What a wonderful vacation. I have always wanted to go to the coasts of Italy. I’ve been to Rome, Florence and Venice, but this area is certainly on my list. It looks just wonderful! And it sounds like you had a great time. I love the photos. Thank you for sharing. Oh and it’s been nearly 15 years since I’ve been and I still crave the gelato! :)
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Bam's KitchenMay 15, 2013 - 7:08 pm

Bonjourno Smidge! Welcome back. I am sure you never wanted to leave Italy. Your photos are gorgeous but I know it is difficult to capture the easy pace and slower relaxed style of visiting Italy. The leisurely lunches with food and wine and then more wine. The beautiful walks on the cobblestone streets. I love all of your photos and really like your seascape ideas in your home. Your home looks like a cozy place to be and now you brought al little inspiration from Italy with you too. I can’t wait to read more of your upcoming posts. Take Care, BAM
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Hotly SpicedMay 15, 2013 - 8:02 pm

Welcome back! What a fantastic holiday destination. I can just imagine how much there would be to see, taste and buy! I bet your luggage was bursting on your return. Love your table setting xx
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susielindauMay 15, 2013 - 9:36 pm

Looks like a great trip!
Welcome back!

SallyMay 15, 2013 - 11:49 pm

Barb,

What a great article about your travels to Italy. I love, love, love the mosaic wave tiles!!

Thanks or sharing,

Sally
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joMay 16, 2013 - 12:22 am

Welcome back Smidge! It’s been awhile.
I’m so jealous of you. Capri looks beautiful, just as I have imagined. Hope to be able to see some Italian coastal towns soon.

looking forward to more photos and updates from you..hope you are coping well with the jetlag!take care!
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Roger StowellMay 16, 2013 - 3:17 am

Great memories. We used to go on holiday to Positano quite often. The irony is that in this poorest part of Italy is home to some of the wealthiest tourists in the world. The prices on the Amalfi coast are are as spectacular as the scenery:)

GiovannaMay 16, 2013 - 3:37 am

What a wonderful place Barb! And your deco is fantastic :)
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Jed Gray (sportsglutton)May 16, 2013 - 7:37 am

Liz and I are jealous jealous jealous. :-)
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VivekaMay 16, 2013 - 8:27 am

Welcome home .. didn’t even know you were gone – wonderful gallery of photos – I have been at Capri … stunning place and it gives you great legs with all the up hill walking.
I don’t agree at all with the tiles .. I get seasick when I look at them – and I been more or less at sea for 35 years .. only seasick twice. Looking forward to see and read more about your journey.
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DebraMay 16, 2013 - 11:26 am

It’s really good to hear from you, Smidge! You were missed! Your travels to the Isle of Capri is a wonderful boon to well-being! I love the photos and can only imagine how refreshing it must have been. I think you’ll be enjoying the memories of this trip long into the future. That’s the kind of travel I most appreciate. ox
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KathrynMay 16, 2013 - 4:45 pm

My dearest, I am delighted that had this spectacular trip! Wish I could send you some gelato to ease the return, but I trust you’ll find some such medication in an un-melted state soon. Welcome home! xoxo, Kathryn
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Lynda - TasteFoodMay 16, 2013 - 5:58 pm

What a divine trip. I love your taste.

Amy TongMay 16, 2013 - 7:55 pm

Thank you so much for sharing these beautiful pictures with us. So gorgeous. I absolutely adore the waves tile floors too. So unique and pretty. :)
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ChgoJohnMay 16, 2013 - 11:02 pm

Welcome home, Barb! So glad to have you back safe and sound. Having been to both the Amalfi Coast and Capri, I cannot wait to hear all about your experiences there. As it is, I’m grinning ear to ear. :)
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spreeMay 17, 2013 - 9:28 am

ahh, welcome back traveler. so happy to see you! your sea-inspired tablescape and the colors you choose and the reasons…these sing to me too. just truly lovely to see you home, refreshed, renewed. i hope you’ll gentle your way back into the life you left. (and such pretty images, Barb!)

MarleneMay 17, 2013 - 6:57 pm

Barb, your vacation sounds wonderful. It certainly was beautiful, judging from your photos. As for that hotel floor, it’s definitely artistic, but I’m not sure I could walk on the wavy design (I felt a little seasick just looking at it
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writerwannabe763May 17, 2013 - 9:18 pm

What beautiful photos…and I’m sure equally beautiful memories….Diane
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mjskitMay 18, 2013 - 5:11 pm

Thanks for sharing pictures of your trip! They are lovely. What a beautiful trip and I do love the pictures taken from the ferry. The vintage shops look like fun. :) Welcome home and thanks for sharing your trip.
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Gretchen O'DonnellMay 21, 2013 - 9:10 am

Reading you – and viewing your photos – is like food for the soul. Thank you, Smidge!
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Kids These Days

I’m finally old enough to be able to say those words. { And there are more words in my head than a poem can contain today. } { Disclaimer: I know.. there are beautiful, talented, compassionate, generous, philanthropic, intelligent children in this world. I am blessed to know many of them.} While standing in line…

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BrittanyApril 14, 2013 - 9:28 am

What a sad story. I must admit I was a bit of a wild child when I was younger, but never to the point of losing respect for my elders. I have to say that I think I am still young enough (or fiery enough) to have said HELL NO to that girl that tried to take the seat you were walking towards. I would have straight put her ass in check. I am glad you didn’t let the girls cut in line also. That makes me smile!! Thank you for sharing this story, as sad as it may be.

KorenaApril 14, 2013 - 9:55 am

Well said Barb, although it makes me feel sad and sick that this is something needs to be said at all.
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john@kitchenriffsApril 14, 2013 - 11:43 am

What a sad story about Rehtaeh. Heartbreaking, really. This was an extremely thoughtful and provocative post – thank you.
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Rosalind JefferyApril 14, 2013 - 12:10 pm

Thank you for honoring Rehtaeh. This story and the way you told it will build compassion. I have sent it on to my two young adult children. They are my hope for a better future.

ChgoJohnApril 14, 2013 - 2:00 pm

A thoughtful post, Barb, and I know it wasn’t easy for you to write of Rehteah. How very tragic. I find it unconscionable that today, after all the publicity, some school administrations are still so slow to react to bullying. Granted, I hope they are in a very small minority but even 1 is too many. May she rest in peace.
Thanks, Barb.
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celiaApril 14, 2013 - 2:12 pm

Beautiful, thought-provoking piece, Smidge. Poor Rehtaeh, her story made it all the way to our newspapers.
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writerwannabe763April 14, 2013 - 4:27 pm

There is not much to add to your very well written and empathetic post. My heart breaks at the thought of the loneliness and despair felt by this young teenager.

As you did, so did we start in our very young children’s lives to teach them empathy and sympathy…. to watch for that child in class that had no friends and to be a friend to them …because as I said to them ‘how would you feel if you were him/her’? I was taught by my mother.

Bullying has always been but never has it been to the proportion it is today…with as you say ‘social media’.

Parents need to teach their children…alas some parents think ‘children should work things out on their own’ etc.

Anyway, I agree so much with the fact that young people today need direction but not pushed beyond their limits…..enough said…Diane
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Claire @ Claire K CreationsApril 14, 2013 - 5:34 pm

Barb what a beautifully written post but such a sad story. At 28 I don’t know if I yet have the right to say ‘kids these days’ but I really totally agree with you. My children will learn proper values and respect and be nurtured not pushed. It seems for a lot of kids right now it’s all about being better than the next person, having more etc. I hope the pendulum swings too.
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Carolyn ChanApril 14, 2013 - 7:18 pm

This must have been a tough post to write Barb. Thank you for sharing Rehtaeh’s story and I couldn’t agree more with you.
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Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenApril 14, 2013 - 9:53 pm

Brittany, your mom sure raised you right, but I knew that already just from your lovely blog:)xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenApril 14, 2013 - 9:54 pm

You’re so right about that, Korena, these discussions shouldn’t even have to happen.xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenApril 14, 2013 - 9:55 pm

Thanks so much, John, it took so much time to think through and write. I was unsure whether to post it but I’m glad now that I did.

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenApril 14, 2013 - 9:56 pm

It’s always so nice to see you here, Ros.. and I’m truly touched that you would send this on to your children. You were always my mentor in education, the teacher I always aspired to be.xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenApril 14, 2013 - 9:57 pm

It was a struggle for sure, John. I closed comments and then reopened them this morning. I thought it must be authentic when it causes pain to write and fear to publish. I can’t get over how everyone (except her family of course) let her down.

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenApril 14, 2013 - 9:59 pm

I’m not surprised her story made it there.. I think it’s her character, prettiest eyes and genuine beauty that just glows in her photos.. and makes you want to understand.

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenApril 14, 2013 - 10:03 pm

Your mother taught you well, Diane, it shows in your own writing. xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenApril 14, 2013 - 10:04 pm

Oh, my gosh, Claire, you will be just the most awesome mother one day… and I thin you can say “kids these days”, you’re such an accomplished young woman already. xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenApril 14, 2013 - 10:05 pm

I’ve been thinking about so much of this for almost months now.. and this even just broke my heart, as I said, I couldn’t not write it down.

DebraApril 14, 2013 - 11:55 pm

Barb, I am really glad you took the time to express so many thoughts that I’ve held myself. When I first heard this story I just couldn’t imagine that what I was hearing was true. Sadly, I could believe the bullying that accompanied rape–somehow blaming the victim. But I couldn’t believe that all her friends deserted her in such a time as she would need them the most. Tragedy compounded!

I spent some time on your links to Rehteah’s memorial page. She was a beautiful young girl and it’s impossible to conceive of how a situation could become so vile that she’d take her own life. Lots to think about here, Barb. oxo
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Ashley @ Draw NearApril 15, 2013 - 8:24 am

My heart is broken for this girl and her family. What a horrendous tragedy.

My heart breaks for a society that breeds competition vacillating with total escape, that exalts the self and ignores the soul, that doesn’t even see the other. I think about these things a lot as we raise our three daughters. My mom and dad taught much about compassion, and it has helped shape me into who I am, and my husband and I continue teaching these lessons in our home over and over again. And we will not stop. Every day, trying to ask them and ourselves “how did you give love away?” It begins in the heart and extends through the mouth and the hands…I have so many thoughts and feelings about all this, but that’s all for me for now.

Thank you for the honesty of your heart cries here, Smidge.
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Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenApril 15, 2013 - 8:35 am

I love your blog, your thoughts and your poetic writing, Ashley. You’re so right.. how did you give love away says it all. Thanks for stopping by!

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenApril 15, 2013 - 8:39 am

Thanks, Debra, I always love hearing your thoughts on things. This situation is truly heinous, criminal, and breaks my heart. I see my own little girl when she had glasses and that same trusting gaze…

Lynda - TasteFoodApril 15, 2013 - 8:43 am

Yes yes and yes.
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Chica AndaluzaApril 15, 2013 - 8:54 am

Powerful stuff, really made me think and bought up lots of memories of similar experiences with young people. It also made me think of the nice young people with manners and respect for each and everyone. Clearly their parents taught them that we don’t all have to win all he time, sometimes in life it’s good to come second or even last.
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Norma ChangApril 15, 2013 - 10:56 am

Thank you for taking the time to write this post. I am sure it was not an easy post to write.

SallyBRApril 15, 2013 - 12:32 pm

Your post got to me on the same day that another horrible suicide story hit the news here. A beautiful 17 year old boy who “came out of the closet” but was bullied for that very reason to the extent that only death brought him relief.

I don’t know what to add to your post. Sometimes I don’t believe we are all one single species. Sometimes it feels like it cannot be possible – the level of cruelty and lack of compassion I see in some people is too far away from my own feelings and behavior, as well as everyone I know and call a friend.

It makes me literally sick inside, and I hope parents, school teachers and administrators, as well as politicians start doing what is right.

mjskitApril 15, 2013 - 8:53 pm

Barbara – what an honest and heartfelt post. It saddened me, it angered me because I feel the same way, but it made me feel good that I’m not the only one who feels this way. I’m quickly approaching the big 60 and having been in adult education for 30 years, I’ve seen the kids change. The 18 to 21 year olds that I got as students back in the 70′s are not the ones of today. I wonder what happened. What happen to respect? What happen to empathy? What happen to just caring about someone other than yourself? Granted there are exception, but all you have to do is look at the trash reality shows that people watch and know that kindness and consideration of others is become a thing of the past. Unfortunately that darling young girl is a victim in so many ways and we can only hope that her tragedy wakes some people up to see what is really going on here and that things need to be set right again. I could go on and on, but you’ve done a beautiful job and I know it wore you out to write this post. I thank for it. Lots of hugs!
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Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenApril 17, 2013 - 9:17 pm

I am so lucky to have met so many mature and lovely young kids.. definitely there’s a lot of them out there too.. thankfully:)

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenApril 17, 2013 - 9:18 pm

You’re welcome, Norma. xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenApril 17, 2013 - 9:19 pm

Ahhhh… that just breaks my heart. I think you’ve really said it, Sally, are we the same species?? Who does that sort of thing and can live with themselves.

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenApril 17, 2013 - 9:24 pm

Well said, MJ, television gives us a pretty good insight to some of the garbage behavior out there.

SpreeApril 29, 2013 - 8:16 am

Barb – I’m so deeply grateful to you for taking the time to give this subject your articulate, thoughtful, compassionate attention! I couldn’t agree with you more. I add my prayers to yours and the chorus of others that one day soon (when enough voices rise up) the tide will shift towards “common goodness.” One cost of this pursuit of so-called “excellence” seems to be the loss of attention and value once given to aspects of human kindness – empathy, compassion, respect, defense of those in need. There has always been bullying and cruelty; always those willing to take advantage and sadly too always rape. It’s not these things that are new…but what seems new and especially troubling (as you point out) is a diminishment of the ability to feel another’s pain. (Even a friend’s!) And yes, that’s a Teaching! A teaching for which there is barely an equal; a teaching that needs to begin with the first words. The only lament that I would add to your own articulate article – “Oh, Adults these days!” (Thank you again so much for this!)
With love, A.

An Evening with Aviv

 I love it when the stars line up… and you finally meet the person you’ve been hearing so much about. Is it fate or an inevitability when some paths cross?    They say Calgary is a big city with a small town feel.. and if you’re at all part of our food scene, you would…

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ReneeMarch 21, 2013 - 5:29 pm

What a Great Experience and to meet a “Food God”!!! You were making me hungry listing all Aviv makes and bakes – yummers:) I have to add some food experiences to my bucket list – for me it would be learning how to make cheese. Have a Great One!
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Bam's KitchenMarch 21, 2013 - 7:53 pm

Hello Smidge, what a great opportunity and thanks for sharing the excitement. When your happy the whole room lights up and so does my computer screen, so to speak. Calgary is a long ways away but if my travels ever take me there, you are the first person I would call then if time the “Food God”. Take care, BAM
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yummychunkletMarch 21, 2013 - 8:37 pm

Looks like it was an awesome evening!
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Choc Chip UruMarch 21, 2013 - 9:33 pm

What a wonderful evening my friend :)

Cheers
Choc Chip Uru
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Carolyn ChanMarch 21, 2013 - 9:58 pm

I’M SO EXCITED FOR YOU !!!

What an excellent story !
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TandyMarch 21, 2013 - 10:13 pm

Lucky you! Since part of Priscilla landed in my kitchen I’ve become obsessed with bread. I’m heading to the kitchen soon to start another batch :)
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ChgoJohnMarch 21, 2013 - 10:21 pm

Now that sounds a great time! Baking anything in a group would be fun, in and of itself. Doing it in a group led by someone who so loves bread baking would be a real treat, Barb. I’m so glad you were able to take advantage of the opportunity. Thanks for letting us tag-along. :)
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James YoungMarch 21, 2013 - 10:38 pm

Barbara,
Another fantastic post. Yes florescent lighting can be a pain, but you did it justice just the same. It could be the colour of the lamps that are being used. It has to be the light source. If I remember some of your prior shots didn’t have any tinge like these so it has to be the lamps.
Enough of the techie stuff, back to the subject at hand, your photos told the story very well.
I like the way you use soft lighting for many of your pictures it gives them a touch that only a women can do. They are soft and very easy on the eyes and for your food shots it makes one want to devour the subject.
– 30 -
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AnonymousMarch 22, 2013 - 3:12 am

Our most popular artisan baker is Paul Hollywood (he of Great British Bake-off Fame) – He’s a Liverpudlian (at least he’s Scouse) and a fairly intense chap – when he tells you your bread is not good on that show, you take notice!

AnonymousMarch 22, 2013 - 6:01 am

Oh I wish I could sign up for one of his classes. Making bread is a favourite of mine, there is nothing like the smell of bread baking to make a house feel like a home. It looks like you had lots of fun! Rhoda x

Eva TaylorMarch 22, 2013 - 6:36 am

What a great story Barbara, thanks for sharing it with us. I wish we would have known about it when we were in Calgary a couple of years ago to visit my nephew (who has since moved back to the Big Smoke). It’s wonderful that you were also able to participate in the class with The Man himself. Bread making is such an art and it’s such a honour to be taught by a professional.
I just wanted to mention that the links in italic in your text are very very light on my screen (I have a 24″ iMac), to the point where it’s difficult to read.
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Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenMarch 22, 2013 - 7:52 am

Thanks, James.. I did use a vintage filter for effect, it was the blurry hands, but that’s part of an action shot I guess:)

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenMarch 22, 2013 - 7:54 am

Hey, thanks, Eva.. I think I’ve fixed the problem. There’s so much extra fiddling in the beginning:)

Emilie@TheCleverCarrotMarch 22, 2013 - 10:10 am

Oh wow! What a lucky girl you are. How I wish I was a fly on the wall in that class! I can only imagine how amazing this must’ve been. I’ve been using Celia’s Priscilla and absolutely loving it. I’ve baked so many loaves now, I can’t stop. I’m excited to see how yours turn out :) I’m sure they will be fabulous like everything in your kitchen! And I’m loving the new site design!! xx

Chica AndaluzaMarch 22, 2013 - 10:26 am

What a wonderful opportunity! Thanks for sharing this with us…did you meet him then (she says, tongue in cheek) or did I miss that bit?!
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spreeMarch 22, 2013 - 5:23 pm

Ahhh Smidge a night to remember! A gathering of like-minded souls, eager and open to watch, to listen, to observe, to dig one’s two hands into wet dough, to play, to eat, to share – it’s like the best that Kindergarten was!! :) What a wonderful opportunity for you (& the others) to learn from a good man whose passions led him into an enterprise that fulfills his own heart and other’s needs! Just Beautiful!!! xoxo

Norma ChangMarch 22, 2013 - 5:53 pm

What a wonderful opportunity and experience. I am looking forward to seeing your creations from Priscilla’s offspring. Have your named him/her?

Allison@ Main St. CuisineMarch 22, 2013 - 6:14 pm

What a awesome evening and such an inspirational story as well! Will you be sharing any of the recipes here (like the pizza dough)? It sounds like a truly amazing time. :-)
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Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenMarch 22, 2013 - 7:49 pm

Oh, Norma, it’s a big dilemma here. My daughter thinks Jarome (as in Iginla) would be cool.. but Jarome, son of Priscilla? Well.. we shall see:D xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenMarch 22, 2013 - 7:51 pm

As I was reading your response, spree.. I was thinking the very same thing. It’s back to child’s play, but with so much more science involved. Oh, and practice, lots and lots of practice.. not that I’d mind that:D xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenMarch 22, 2013 - 7:52 pm

Heehee.. yes.. we met him (tongue in cheek.. and on bread:D) xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenMarch 22, 2013 - 7:54 pm

I’ve been reading about Priscilla in your kitchen, Emilie.. is she still Priscilla when you have a portion of her.. or does she get renamed every time?xx

DavidMarch 23, 2013 - 9:34 am

What fun! A big group, an artrist sharing his passion, and edible results! Fun!

HetterbellMarch 23, 2013 - 3:25 pm

It was great reading this. This week I baked Hot Cross Buns for the first time. Previously, I had never made any kind of bread product so I’m really enjoying learning about it. Thank you. :)
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movita beaucoupMarch 23, 2013 - 5:11 pm

I read this post on the bus the other morning when I was trying to get to school in a snow storm. It was the perfect way to start yet another day in the boulangerie! At school, we have a saying: a day without bread is like a day without sunshine…

DebraMarch 24, 2013 - 5:41 pm

I would really enjoy meeting and learning from Aviv. I love to bake bread and would gain so much from this experience. What a lovely way to introduce us to someone who apparently has quite a generous spirit!
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Sawsan @chef in disguiseMarch 25, 2013 - 10:55 pm

What a wonderful experience. Watching someone with passion do the thing they love is a real treat! Thank you for sharing the experience with us
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A Little Side-Tracked

“Where did she go..” I’ve been on a wee escape.. to the land of Palm Trees Hiking through parched brush and scraggy rock formations.. The land barely interrupted by tiny signs of an emerging spring.. I’m told it’ll be a botanical wonder in only a few weeks. We found the inevitable oasis.. its restorative spring…

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saffronandhoneyMarch 2, 2013 - 10:14 pm

Enjoy the sunshine and the catch up! x

andy1076March 2, 2013 - 10:28 pm

Thank you for taking us on the journey and reminders of warm sun :)

Celia @ Fig Jam and Lime CordialMarch 2, 2013 - 10:35 pm

Have a wonderful time, Barb! It looks absolutely glorious.. xx

TandyMarch 2, 2013 - 11:06 pm

Relax and enjoy :)

Bam's Kitchen (@bamskitchen)March 2, 2013 - 11:37 pm

Have a beautiful holiday and enjoy the sun and scenery. Take care, BAM

Eva TaylorMarch 2, 2013 - 11:38 pm

The sunshine and gorgeous nature really agrees with you. Such beautiful scenes; thank you!

Choc Chip UruMarch 3, 2013 - 12:53 am

What a beautiful photogenic post my friend, so many wonderful looking plants!

Cheers
CCU

restlessjoMarch 3, 2013 - 1:12 am

Good to escape from the kitchen now and then, Smidge. Battery recharge. I could certainly feel the heat!

trixfred30March 3, 2013 - 2:47 am

Although you are a world away from here we are connected through a shared love of…..Starbucks!

glutenfreezenMarch 3, 2013 - 5:39 am

Beautiful photos. Ahhh…the sunshine and warm weather. I long for it! ~ April

movita beaucoupMarch 3, 2013 - 6:08 am

Enjoy all the gorgeousness! xox

ruthehMarch 3, 2013 - 6:19 am

What a way to enjoy winter! Thanks for sharing your wonderful and warm excursion with us.
See you in the kitchen. Enjoy your time away.

KarenMarch 3, 2013 - 6:28 am

It is nice to take a break, especially if it involves warmth and friendship.

sallybrMarch 3, 2013 - 6:31 am

Loved the post, and the final quote says it all!
You look beautiful as usual, and happiness flows off the photo, which is the way it should be… ENJOY!

PapaBearMarch 3, 2013 - 6:50 am

It’s not warm here,Barb, but for lthe time I was looking at your pics, I felt the sunshine. Hoping you had a great time.
Paul

Rufus' Food and Spirits GuideMarch 3, 2013 - 7:13 am

Really nice photos. I wouldn’t worry about missing the full bloom, looks like you still saw some great scenery.

Judy @Savoring TodayMarch 3, 2013 - 7:53 am

While the anticipation of spring keeps our hearts looking forward, a wee escape can help our hearts settle into now. Glad you got to get away. :)

Three Well BeingsMarch 3, 2013 - 8:56 am

My dear, I hope you’re not just up the street and not saying hello! LOL! Those landscapes look mighty familiar. :-) Enjoy warmth, sunshine and the chance to recharge! oxo

Food,Photography & FranceMarch 3, 2013 - 8:57 am

Where is that? Seems very rugged. See you back in the kitchen soon.

Shauna KoppangMarch 3, 2013 - 9:07 am

You warmed my heart as well dear friend, and never again shall there be such a prolonged absence.

blissfulbrittMarch 3, 2013 - 10:25 am

Gorgeous! All of it. I hope you’re enjoying yourself!

KaristaMarch 3, 2013 - 10:39 am

Beautiful pictures Smidge! Looked like such a wonderful vacation. I love those kinds of vacations, hiking, nature, and of course good food and good friends. :)

HetterbellMarch 3, 2013 - 1:30 pm

Looks like a very special place. :)

john@kitchenriffsMarch 3, 2013 - 2:08 pm

Looks like you’ve been having a wonderful time! Enjoy time off – it’s so important. Great pictures!

hotlyspicedMarch 3, 2013 - 4:29 pm

How lovely to have a weekend away. You must have really enjoyed getting away from the constant snow, ice, rain and grey, grey days. What a contrast. And how wonderful to spend time with a special friend – great image of the two of you xx

ceciliaMarch 3, 2013 - 6:48 pm

Pick me! Pick me! And look.. your site let me on, i will post my comment very fast before i crash.. hi barb honey.. you are a star!! c

ThislteMarch 3, 2013 - 7:56 pm

Love your photographs! What a wonderful weekend!

Have a blessed and amazing day!
karianne

gastrogardenerMarch 3, 2013 - 8:41 pm

Enjoy your holiday!

ChgoJohnMarch 3, 2013 - 10:38 pm

So glad you were able to get away, Barb. I see you picked the perfect spot to get some respite from Winter — at a dear friend’s side. :)

niasunsetMarch 4, 2013 - 2:18 am

Seems it was a great time… Thank you, have a nice day, love, nia

Chica AndaluzaMarch 4, 2013 - 4:59 am

Beautiful post and fabulous photos!

chef mimiMarch 4, 2013 - 11:27 am

Absolutely beautiful.

musingmarMarch 4, 2013 - 12:53 pm

A wonderful getaway! I could practically feel the sun …

Norma ChangMarch 4, 2013 - 6:31 pm

Gorgeous photos, have a wonderful time. thanks for taking me along.

mjskitMarch 4, 2013 - 9:19 pm

What a great place to hike around and enjoy nature. Looks like you’re enjoying yourself. Have fun!

thefieryredheadMarch 5, 2013 - 9:07 am

I visited the area a few years ago. Great shots! Did you take the aerial tram? Joshua Tree was amazing.

wendy@chezchloeMarch 5, 2013 - 11:33 am

Beautiful. I feel the warmth I see hear. x

Ray's MomMarch 5, 2013 - 6:48 pm

Outstanding photos, just what we needed with another winter storm heading our way

petit4chocolatierMarch 5, 2013 - 6:53 pm

Wow, everything is beautiful! Lovely photos! You deserve to be a little side tracked. Love the quote.., very true!

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenMarch 5, 2013 - 8:10 pm

I hope it doesn’t hit you too hard!! Stay warm! xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenMarch 5, 2013 - 8:39 pm

Oh, I wish I’d known about the aerial tram! And my husband was supposed to get to Joshua Tree, but they never did. I guess I’ll just have to get back there soon:D

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenMarch 5, 2013 - 9:12 pm

Oooh, don’t crash, lol! Now, a birdie tells me you went to see a certain John recently! I hope you blog about that! xx

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenMarch 5, 2013 - 9:17 pm

Palm Springs.. on the Art Knapp Trail:)

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenMarch 5, 2013 - 9:55 pm

I’m not surprised.. I think we’re a bit alike that way:)

Barbara Bamber | justasmidgenMarch 5, 2013 - 9:55 pm

Never again:) xx

Carolyn ChanMarch 6, 2013 - 3:46 am

Love getaways like that – you look gorgeous as ever, Smidge ! As does your friend !

spreeMarch 6, 2013 - 12:49 pm

Oh! I think you and GGP must have crossed mid-air somewhere. He’s there now, but heading home soon. This is the sort of getaway that gets into our bones when they’re feeling especially chilled and cranky, as they do this time of year. Sun on bare arms, what a delicious remedy! Happy knowing you connected with a long-time friend – yet another delicious remedy! Hoping this time away has done you such good Smidge. We’ll see you back in the kitchen soon! xxoo

vivekaMarch 7, 2013 - 4:45 pm

What an adventure, looks a bit hot and dry to me … glad you made it back – and you don’t have to go into the kitchen straight away. Great gallery of photos. Roses blooming .. fantastic.

Ashley LarkinMarch 7, 2013 - 10:27 pm

So happy you got away with a good friend. What a lovely place to be restored. That quote by Thoreau…isn’t that the truth?!

EggtonMarch 8, 2013 - 10:35 am

I love how that flowering cactus (in the photo right above your sentence about finding the inevitable oasis) looks like it could be an anemone underwater in a coral reef. How neat is that?!

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