Everyone should have a Mope Day.
Yesterday was mine.
I had to be up at 4:30 to shuttle my boy to the airport for his flight back to the world of hockey.
Then back to bed to doze for an hour or so until later that morning, dragging my heels, I got dressed and went to face my fate.
Ok, it would only be fair to stop here and tell you that I have the most amazing dentist on the planet. He’s mensa brilliant, a perfectionist and has the biggest heart. In any event, they tilted me back, I closed my eyes and tried to go to my “happy place”. I think I fell asleep and an hour or two later it was done. (Lost track of time, told you he was awesome!)
Back home again, I anxiously waited for the freezing to wear off, because then I would need to feel sorry for myself. There I would be, home… alone… suffering, with no one to look after me.
Confound it! I felt reasonably fine and only required an Advil or two. This wasn’t the plan! I was supposed to feel wretched! I was supposed to be sequestered for at least one day of rest!
I decided to have one anyway.
On went the sweats, up went the hair into a ponytail, out came neglected magazines and books, a cup of tea… then a bowl of KD for supper (almost sounds like an obscenity typing those letters on a cooking blog).
Then I moped.
I played sad, slow music and imagined what it will be like when my daughter finally decided to leave home too. It wasn’t pretty. Something like this…
I wallowed. There wasn’t any point in practicing cello or working on music theory, I needed respite from the cold, cruel world.
I napped with my dog.
My dog moped.
My daughter came home from her exam, asked how I was, cleaned up the kitchen for me and then I decided that I should probably go to bed early. (It was getting a bit embarrassing.)
I had an awesome sleep and I (almost) feel like a new person today.
Everyone should have a Mope Day.
Even dogs…
I love how you think! I spent the better part of yesterday driving with my dog & parrot after a visit home. I was just sitting here, thinking how I’ve got nothing so urgent that it cannot wait until tomorrow — and then your “mope day” was revealed to me. I must say, I am moved to mope. Thank you for the inspiration. My nap awaits…
You drive with a parrot? What breed of dog? I hope you enjoy your nap:)
The worst part is you don’t even want ice cream after a trip to the dentist! Hope today’s better.
How did you know! I was craving it all last night:)
Isn’t it so annoying when all of life (well, almost all) conspires to surprise with its goodness, when you’re trying so hard to have good mope? Hope you have a much mo-bettah day today!
Hahaha, you are so right! Yup, goodness everywhere and no excuse to feel sorry for myself.. do I get points for trying?!
My theory is that the less you feel you can afford one, the more you need a mope day. Make one. Take it. The world will not stop spinning and the sun will not snuff out forever if you take a day to care for yourself–and if they do, why then it won’t matter anymore, will it!! Meanwhile, you have a chance to regain equilibrium and become your best self again–and the world deserves that kind of commitment if it IS to keep spinning, no? Good on you for doing it right!
You are absolutely right on this one! I had to force myself to mope… but it was time well spent:)
Oh gosh don’t even get me started on the dentist. I love mine, but since I hadn’t been in over a year and a half since I moved/had to find a new one, I’m an absolute mess! Hope you’re feeling better today. x
I love my dentist and his staff.. they are miracle workers that’s for sure! Too bad you don’t live here, I could recommend them:) Good luck and thank you!
I agree wholeheartedly. Everyone does need a mope day. I had mine last week and called in sick and just stayed in bed most of the day watching my Tivo. I felt much better then. Hope your mouth is healing nicely.
Isn’t it awesome having recorded television on sick days:) No commercials…My mouth is sore but healing quite quickly thank goodness! Thanks for asking:)
Hey Cool! now I want a Mope Day? can i have one without the dentist!? c
Absolutely, I insist;)
I had a mope day for two days and now I’m trying to get myself out of it lol. Very hard since I loved my mini break. And we won’t discuss the dentist lol