Remember how I always write about
“just jumping in”
taking risks and trying new projects?
For the past month, I’ve had this totally irrational fear of
Crafting Failure
I know.. completely ridiculous and in the scheme of things..
inconsequential.
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What I don’t get is where this mind set came from?
Had I lost my crafting Mojo?
I’ve been afraid to start..
in case I wreck things.
{ This also explains the frequent publishing of recipes with nary a craft in sight for the last little bit. }
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Remember those brand new scribblers in school.. I thought they were so beautiful and pristine..
that I didn’t want to write on them
because I didn’t like my handwriting..
it would wreck them.
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When strange thoughts like this appear out of nowhere,
I just have to chalk it up to demons from my past..
You know.. those times you did try and failed?
And then proceeded to bash yourself { internally } over and over for not succeeding?
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Those annoying little voices from the past can just show up out of the blue sometimes,
no matter how much you’ve rationalized them into submission.
Somewhere along the way I thought I had to be perfect..
and thankfully, that is so not who I am today!
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I thought you might like this.. it was shared by a friend on Facebook and I am unable to attribute its source..
But I loved it enough to print a copy for myself since I love positive reminders.
I feel weightless when I visualize the act of simply releasing those things we can’t control in our lives..
I inhale deeply..
and let it all go.
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So you’ll be happy to know I’ve got a new project on the go that involves pink, a real pair of scissors and a bolt of this..
And because these things take a little more time than a recipe..
I’ve got a wee little GORP { Trail Mix } for you to try in the meantime.
Colleen { second from the right }.. is just the loveliest friend you’d ever wish for.
Incredibly supportive and an endless source of positive encouragement..
Actually, all these girls are!
Surrounding yourself with friends is as guaranteed way to silence your inner critic!
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This is Colleen’s recipe.. such a simple one
but whenever I make it.. I think of our awesome trip together Helihiking..
We really took risks that week, I couldn’t have done it without my friends!
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GORP | Trail Mix
Nothing could be easier than making your own GORP.
It isn’t even really a recipe! Just lightly toast an assortment of nuts and add pretty much anything you’d like. There is so much unhealthy salt in store bought Trail Mix, it’s so much better when you make your own.
If you’ve got a busy day, pop a little bag of Trail Mix in your car, a handful goes a long way to ease your hunger and give you a healthier and much needed boost of energy!
- Assortment of unsalted nuts and seeds
- *almonds
- *pecans
- *walnut halves
- *sunflower seeds
- *pumpkin seeds, roasted and salted
- pistachios
- peanuts
- any cereal
- Additions
- *Large chunk white Callebaut chocolate or small chips
- *dried mango
- *dried pineapple
- M&M's (they won't melt in your hand)
- raisins
- dried cranberries
- Pick up an assortment of nuts and seeds in the bulk section of your grocery store. I buy equal amounts of the larger nuts and a few cups less of the seeds. I usually buy all unsalted but do buy salted and pre-roasted sunflower seeds. This add a bit of salt to the trail mix.
- Once home, preheat your oven to 325F.
- Mix your nuts and seeds (except for the sunflower seeds) together in a large roasting pan. Bake but remember to stir every 15 minutes or so. Repeat until the nuts have browned. Stir in the pumpkin seeds.
- Once the nuts, seeds and the pan have completely cooled, stir in any of the remaining ingredients you wish. The items starred are the ones we usually use for our GORP, but you can use any combination you like.
- This is a recipe you can really tailor to your personal taste, but we really love the white chocolate and dried mango or pineapple in ours. White chocolate just seems perfect for a cold winter day!
It’s a real struggle when we set the bar so high for ourselves that we end up being paralysed with fear and then achieve nothing because we do nothing. It’s not good! I’m so glad you’ve overcome those issues and have started on a new project. The fabric looks very romantic. I’ve never tried heli-skiing but it sure looks like a lot of fun and I’d definitely need some energy treats in my pockets like this trail mix xx
Smidge, don’t feel alone, as we all suffer the same fear, just not nice when you are in the midst of it all. Know that you are always an inspiration to me and I admire all that you do.
Have a beautiful day and I love the sound of your friends trail mix, scrumptious!
🙂 Mandy xo
I guess like ‘writer’s block’ you just had a ‘creative block”..Life sometimes gets in the way I think thankfully it didn’t hang around long…
The photos in the mountains are breath-taking… Diane
Great inspirational post!
Oh dear Barbara, I doubt you could or would mess up one of your very classy crafts, and even if you did, I’m sure you’d figure out a way to save it and no one would be the wiser!
Heli-hiking sounds like an adventure and it’s great that you have such amazing friends of course a lovely person like you would only attract similarly lovely friends. And that trail mix sounds and looks fantastic. I love the pale blues you’ve used in this post.
I just read through your post and I shook my head in disbelief that someone as creative of you would feel just the tiniest bit of doubt. I’m in awe of all that you create both the recipes and the crafts. Please continue what you are doing…you’re amazing! And, what a sweet group of friends you have (and what a trip) and a sweet little mix of fruit and nuts!
Oh our minds can just be evll sometimes. I can so relate. Glad you are overcoming! Will look forward to your reveal 🙂
You have an adventures soul! *smile
I think the fears for not being in control holds us back … many times, and I love this .. quote. Heights is my worst fear. I’m not afraid when I so fare up that I will not survive if I fall down – but I if I can see the ground I so scared.
Trail mix …. I could have the whole bowl now. *smile
I couldn’t agree with you more Smidge ! We seem to go through life with so much emphasis on success that we forget that we can’t always control everything and that it takes sometimes not getting it right to learn from and to grow.
This is so wonderfully applicable to me right now Smidge. I was going through a very similar process this week. I have a chance at something very big career-wise that’s been hovering for the last few weeks. I kept avoiding it and making excuses until it finally came to me that I was merely avoiding it for fear of failure. Like you, I took a deep breath (did a bit of yoga) and let go. I’m now all in…Sometimes we do have to just silence that inner critic. I love the image of the girl with the kite too. One of my meditations is holding onto a bunch of balloons and then letting go. I always feel such relief and lightness afterward. 🙂 I’m glad you let go to Smidge. I look forward to your crafty results!
Good gorp! I don’t have the crafting gene, so I have no fear of failure — I know I will! 😉 But I have the same fear sometimes in other areas. The deal is, though, I often learn so much from failure. It’s not fun, but if it helps you move on (usually by showing you what you don’t know, and need to), it’s worth it. Usually.
We are all so hard on ourselves, and doubt sneaks up when we least expect (or want) it! The good thing is that surrounding yourself with positive people and ideas slowly pushes that doubt away 🙂
The hiking trip looks beautiful. Nothing better than fresh air and being surrounded by nature’s beauty.
Isn’t that true? Seeing everyone’s beautiful work is so inspiring, you can’t NOT do something:D
That inner critic, I so feel you, Smidge. I’m going through something similar myself. Good luck with the new project, it looks like it’s going to be amazing 🙂
~Ruth